Local Man Admits to Moral Violence in Family Court

In a stark moment of candour at the Family Court in Floriana, a local man openly admitted to using ‘moral violence’ against his wife and daughter. The courtroom fell silent as the man, a 45-year-old resident of Birkirkara, made the astonishing confession during a heated custody battle.

Unveiling the Truth

The man, who cannot be named to protect the identities of his family, was testifying in a case involving the custody of his teenage daughter. The court had been hearing arguments about his suitability as a parent, with his wife alleging a history of psychological abuse. In a surprising turn of events, the man took the stand and admitted, “Yes, I have used moral violence against them. I have made them feel small, I have belittled them, and I am not proud of it.”

His admission through the courtroom, with many present struggling to comprehend the stark honesty. This is a rare occurrence in Maltese courts, where such admissions are often skirted around or denied outright.

What is Moral Violence?

Moral violence, or psychological abuse, is a form of abuse that involves the use of words, actions, or threats to cause emotional pain or humiliation. It can include constant criticism, name-calling, threats, and isolation. Unlike physical abuse, it often leaves no visible scars, but the emotional damage can be profound and long-lasting.

Dr. Maria Mercieca, a local psychologist, explains, “Moral violence is a serious issue that’s often overlooked. It’s insidious because it can happen behind closed doors, and the victims may not even realise they’re being abused. It’s important to recognise the signs and seek help.”

Local Support Services

Malta has several support services for victims of domestic violence. These include the Dar tal-Providenza, which offers residential care and support services, and the Malta Police Force’s Family Protection Unit, which deals with cases of domestic violence. The Richmond Foundation also provides counselling services for those affected by abuse.

Superintendent of the Family Protection Unit, Insp. Maria Dimech, says, “We encourage anyone experiencing moral violence, or any form of domestic abuse, to come forward. We’re here to help and protect you.”

In a poignant moment, the man in question turned to his wife and daughter in the courtroom, tears streaming down his face. “I’m sorry,” he said, “I never meant to hurt you. I just want what’s best for our daughter.”

As the court case continues, the man’s admission serves as a stark reminder of the insidious nature of moral violence and help and support.