Malta’s Teens: The Importance of Connection in Parenting During Covid
Teens in the Time of Covid: The Maltese Parent’s Plight
In the heart of Sliema, at the bustling Strait Street, parents once enjoyed a coffee break while their teens window-shopped or played foosball at nearby arcades. Now, the street’s vibrant energy is replaced by an eerie silence, a stark reminder of the pandemic’s impact on our families. As Maltese parents navigate the challenges of parenting teenagers in these rare times, one thing stands out: the importance of connection.
Isolation in the Land of the Three Cities
Malta, with its dense population and close-knit communities, has always been about togetherness. Yet, the pandemic has forced us into isolation, with teens spending more time indoors, glued to screens. A recent survey by the Maltese Foundation for Wellbeing found that 65% of Maltese teens feel lonely during the pandemic, with 40% reporting increased stress levels. This isolation is taking a toll on our teens’ mental health, and parents are feeling the strain too.
Reconnecting in the Digital Age
In this digital age, connecting with our teens might seem as simple as sending a text or posting on their social media wall. But is it enough? Psychologist Dr. Maria Grech Ganado, who runs a private practice in Msida, says, “While technology can help us stay connected, it’s the quality of our interactions that matters most. We need to engage with our teens in meaningful ways, both online and offline.”
Dr. Grech Ganado suggests scheduling regular family game nights, virtual or in-person, to foster connection. She also recommends setting aside dedicated ‘tech-free’ time for family meals or activities. “It’s about creating a balance, ensuring our teens have the support and connection they need, while also teaching them healthy digital habits.”
Local initiatives like the ‘Parents’ Café’ organised by the Family Life Association in Birkirkara also provide a space for parents to connect, share experiences, and learn from experts. These initiatives of community support in navigating the challenges of parenting teens in these times.
: Our Call to Action
As we look ahead, let’s remember that connection is not just a nice-to-have, it’s a necessity. It’s the lifeline that keeps our families afloat in these stormy waters. So, let’s make a conscious effort to connect with our teens, to listen, to understand, and to support them. Because, at the end of the day, they’re not just our children, they’re our future. And they deserve to grow up in a world where they feel seen, heard, and loved.
